Question by : If you suspect you partner is cheating do you stay or leave?
I am the type of person who will NOT leave if I am suspecting my significant other of cheating until I have proof! By proof I don’t mean he said, she said, or so&so seen whoever but actual proof that cannot be denied or allow any explanation to allow doubt in my mind that they may not be unfaithful. Such as: Msgs written back and forth, voice mails, um pictures or well just straight catching em in the act!!!
Are there any other people out there who are the same way?
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Answer by Foxy Black Stereotype
AS SOON AS YOU SUSPECT YOU SHOULD LEAVE! They will never admit it. Cheaters only admit it when they’re caught with their pants around their ankles. I know for a fact my ex was cheating, I had a private eye and he STILL wouldn’t admit it. Just leave! Your gut is telling the truth!
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I’m with you on that. I, quite frankly, find the extremes some girls will go to just when they SUSPECT their partners are cheating just cruel and shallow. It’s one thing if your partner comes home late from work every night and you find some other girl’s panties in their briefcase. It’s another when they ask to go out with some friends and you automatically assume that they’re cheating and break up right away (which actually happened to a friend of mine.) Anyone who would just break up with a person without even confronting them or talking to them first isn’t a real boyfriend or girlfriend. Because a real boyfriend/girlfriend trusts his/her partner enough not to breathe down their neck every minute of the day, and not to assume the worst of them. It’s normal to be concerned if you notice strange things. But many great relationships have been ruined from a lack of trust, perhaps as many that are ruined from cheating. Always, always, always give them a chance to explain themselves if you do not have proof that they’re up to something bad. Because if you assume the worst of them, and you’re wrong, it shows them that you’re clingy and have no faith in them at all. Which hurts. A lot.