Being cheated on by husband or boyfriend is one of the toughest tests in a woman’s life. Most men, once cheated, swear that this would never happen again. Can they be trusted? Would you be able to keep him from cheating in the future or he lost his way already?
If you tell your Mom or girlfriend about your partner’s infidelity, it’s likely their verdict would be “you cannot trust him anymore, so it is better for you to move on”. Suitable proverb also says, “Once a cheater – always a cheater”. But is it really? Is his infidelity really a death sentence to your relationship, or a man can keep his word on never to cheat again?
There are some signs by which you can find out whether the probability of your partner cheating on you again is high or slim:
Was he truly in love with another woman or it was purely physical?
Emotional attachment is much more dangerous than just a sexual relationship. If he was very passionate about and stopped seeing another woman just because of your pressure, it is almost certain after a while he again comes together with a former lover. And forced separation only inflames their passion.
Did he admit cheating by himself?
People who feel guilty about what they had done, very often admit their wrongdoings. And if your partner does not pretend and seems to be really suffering, it’s likely he will really change and will never cheat again.
Is he ready to find solutions?
Can he do some soul searching and compromise? If he only promises to continue to remain faithful, but it does nothing to change the situation in the future, he might do it again.
If he had cheated more than once, he would definitely do it again.
In this case you would have to decide whether you can live with this man and tolerate his infidelity..