Question by ashli22003: what are some signs of cheating?
my friend found out that her husband used her computer to go to the site singlesnet.com. he even set up a profile on there. They have only been married since july of this year, but have been living together for about 4 years. She caught him, and he denies everything. He works alot out of town, and sometimes he does not call her when he says that he will. Shes scared to push it with him because she thinks that he will leave her. What do I do as a friend to help her?
Best answer:
Answer by Wifey
Investigate with her, girl!
That’s a friend.
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first you know this isn’t your business right? as a friend to help her, you just listen and be there for her….you can’t tell her to leave or track him or whatever, she has to decide what she wants to do and as a friend you support her decision
go on the website and try to get a date with him; then you have evidence for your friend
He comes home with an earring stuck to his
pant zipper. haaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
I don’t like your question, it’s a repeat.
tell her that it should not matter if he leaves her!!! she must deserve better than that. no person deserves to be cheated on and she should find out if it is 100% true, and if it is then she should leave the cheating a******
Encourage her to leave him becuase if you ask enough opinions, there is little dobt he is sleeping around. There is AIDS, VD, and herpes and if she is still with hium and gets one it will scar her for LIFE.
Husband is a two timer.
Some sings include
An upgrade in the wardrobe
An upgrade in personal grooming and an exercise program
Lots of overtime but no money to support it
Just be there for her to talk to. Do not get too involved in this. If she really wants to know she will find out what she wants to know. If you become too involved in trying to investigate it with her, you will not have an out if she decides to stay with him. It will affect your friendship.
Well, if she’s confided in you with the happenings in her marriage,then she values your opinion.Therefore, your should be truthful and forthcoming in any advice you could offer to her, no doubt she’s hurting and needs a good friend to lean on.I would also persuade her to seek counseling and the sooner the better.
He’s a toad to be doing such a thing and how could he deny the obvious! She needs to feel better about herself and likely move on because trust me, things will only get worse. Been there, done that!
Encourage her to talk with her husband about everything she has discovered immediately. If she is scared to talk to her him their marriage is already in trouble. As a friend please listen & support but be slow to judge, careful with suggestions and opinions.