Question by hott_chicky28: how can you be so sure a cheater will eventually get caught?
people say that the guy i know who is cheating on his fiance with me will get caught and end up hurting his fiance…i plan to never be intimate with him again, but im the first person he’s ever cheated with….i want him to go through the pain like i have, but how can you be sooo sure he will eventually get caught, or things wont work out with his fiance?
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Answer by I Aint Bitter
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You could call and tell his fiance and apologize. Good Luck!
with cheaters, they will eventually get caught, women and men are always very leery about the other party straying, so yes he will get caught if he does it more and more, however if you are the only one that he has ever cheated with and the only one that he will ever cheat with then he might not.
But then again, with the type of person that he or she is, when someone feels the need to stray out of the boundaries of the relationship then the relationship is already doomed for failure, its just a matter of time before it does.
gosh, if i were you i would drop by and tell his fiance. x x x
well u can tell his finance the he is cheating.
But i suggest u stay out of it. His girl could come after u. Its possible she may figure it out its possible she may not find out he is cheating.
You can never be sure.
A man I dated cheated on his fiance with me, but I did not know that she existed until after it happened. I found her cell-phone number, called her, and told her what happened. He was absolutely livid with me, but they stayed together.
5 years later, they are divorcing. Why? Because he wouldn’t stop cheating on her, and she was finally fed up.
Sometimes women swallow that gut feeling of infidelity.
She took their daughter and left him.
The cheater is the one to blame. Karma will run it’s course. Live your life with no regrets for you did nothing wrong.
And yes, his fiance will be hurt, but he will be the one who suffers in the end, when he is unable to have real love because of all his wrongdoings. Keep your chin up, and don’t worry about his relationship. It will unravel in due time, when she is finally fed up.
Good luck.
Well if he continues his behavior, he will get caught. How can you be so sure that you are the first one he cheated with? Did the cheater tell you that? Can you believe it? The reasons he will be caught are this – if he keeps it up, it is only when, next, people love to talk about this kind of stuff and it will eventually get back to his fiance. It always does. I have seen it happen before.
Well, personally I hate cheaters, and I hate the people who knowingly screw around with someone who is committed with someone else. Neither one of you are ready for a commitment.
But, had it been me in your shoes I would go to the house and be SOO suprised that a woman is answering the door. Be sure to treat HER like the OTHER WOMAN. And never apologize, it will only make you look guilty. At that point she would be so confused, she would wonder if she is the other woman and she would feel like she has no right to be mad at you, but crucify him for being a womanizer!
If a person only cheats once then they will probably not get caught, but not many people only cheat once. He or a friend could let something slip and she could find out, but honestly if she does find out it will probably hurt her much more than it will hurt him.
So wait, wait…you want him to get caught? You want to hurt him? Is that what I’m reading?
Did he break off the relationship with you and this is why you want him found out? And did you know he was engaged when you were with him?
Here’s the thing I believe. Women are much better at cheating than men. Men don’t always think through all the diabolical angles to get away with it that women do. Why? Because when a woman cheats she’ll have thought it out long before she’ll act on it. Men will “shoot first then ask questions later”, so he’ll probably trip himself eventually.
You may want to save yourself the humiliation of being seen as the “other woman” and let his life play out the way it’s going to. He’ll most likely cheat again and will most likely be sloppy about it, get found out and your hands will be clean.
But that’s just my opinion.
Good luck.
from Presidents like Clintonn, to the youngest child, everyone who cheats gets caught. Every one. There are no exceptions.