Question by chel♥: how do you catch a cheater?
ive been dating this guy for almost two years and i trust him. but ive heard from some ppl that theyve seen him with other girls and acting like more than firends. ive never caught him in the act, seen txt msgs or anything but i do know he is a big flirt. he just calls it “friendly” and says that i shouldnt worry cause im his one and only. id like advice on what you think, signs of a cheater, and ways to catch them. thanks a ton!
Best answer:
Answer by Wendel SDM
if he puts his D in another girls V and Cs all over her F then you’ll know
What do you think? Answer below!.
Check his phone when he’s sleeping
Look at his cell phone bill and check for questionable numbers
Buy a tracker to install on the computer this way you can look at what he’s doing online
Use a friends car and follow him
Buy a GPS tracker and install it under the car
If he has a Facebook pay attention to who is posting on his profile
Hire a private investigator
Signs:
If he seems distant from you
Is always texting but stops when you walk in the room
Closes out screens on the computer when you walk in
Makes up excuses to leave the house or stays gone for hours at a time, if he has a story like “well I went to the cleaners, I picked up my prescription, I went to walgreens and blah blah blah, make sure his story checks out. Check for receipts and the time stamps on those receipts. If you catch him in a lie then you know he is hiding something.
When I’m involved with a woman I don’t tend to flirt as I got what I need- I came to that decision hence why I’m in the relationship. If you’re his “one and only” (I’m making the gag gesture), there’s no need to flirt. I know we’re guys and we have uncontrollable urges that take over our minds and make us unbridled sex pests, but if you love a girl, I mean really love a girl, it’s hard to be swayed away. Occaisional lapses aside.
That’s just my opinion though, I don’t think its much respect to you that he flirts with other women and I don’t think you do either, but I also don’t know the guy, the situation and its ins and outs… Take it from me, it’s a shot in the dark trying to establish if someone’s cheating, the only thing for it is to monitor them, which throws the trust thing out the window and can split a relationship that was actually just fine the way it was.
I love my boyfriend but I just don’t think he would tell me if he was cheating on me, so I started to track his cell phone which gave me all the answers I needed. You can do the same for your boyfriend, go to this site it will allow you to track text messages, locations and more:
http://www.shorten.ws/spy1
Good Luck