Question by PROUD Mommy Of 2!!: How to catch a cheater!?!?!?
How did u catch your cheating husband, wife, gf, bf… etc. i’m having major suspisons of my man cheating on me on a regular basis.. and i think its with multiple people. his stories never match up and change constantly he goes through periods of the day (when he’s “not doing anything”) where he completely avoids the phone.. knowing i’m VERY pregnant and could go into labor at any time. he recently spent a week away from home. (with his guy friends, who were there yes, but i’m sure females were involved also). he’s constantly accusing me of cheating on him, when i’m either at work or home with my son and again VERY pregnant.. he won’t leave the cell phone with me even for an hour, hes ALWAYS cleaning the car, dressing nice (says its for me, but he’s not even going to be with me at that time) i’ve called back a couple of numbers in his phone and females have answered, he says his friend used the phone… even found girls numbers SAVED in the phone! he says his friend put it there.
my problem is i think i’m in denial, because all of the signs are there that he is unfaithful, but i think i need SOLID PROOF seen with my own eyes to convince myself its true… so my question again is has anyone done anything specific to “catch” the one they love cheating and what was it? or am i just paranoid?
ALSO…
i can’t follow him because whenever he’s gone i’m either at work or at home with my son and its late… ALSO he takes our only vehicle. i’ve lost all of my girlfriends, plus i hate getting people who are close to me involved in my relationship it dosn’t seem to help the situation…
please dont tell me if he’s cheating or not.. i need advise on how to catch him other than follow him….
Best answer:
Answer by woaairock
go on the show Cheaters.
What do you think? Answer below!.
There’s a saying that the cheater is known to acuse the other one of cheating in order to feel less of a guilt trip. shouldn’t his friends have a phone? I know he is not the only one with a phone. I don’t want to assume, but I don’t want you to have to carry two children alone cuz u listened to my advice and it turned out wrong. Just pay attention, your either going to be right or wrong. They both can have bad consequences. goodluck lil mama
Sounds like you’ve already answered your own question. How stupid does this guy think you are? I’ve been where you are right now. It was NOT fun. I followed my gut instinct and turned out it was right. It’s not worth the time you are and will waste dwelling on what this guy is doing. Trust me, cut your losses now and move on. Something better will come along. Atleast you will still have some self worth and dignity. Keep your head up girl!
Cheaters is good – but I doubt if you want your story on national TV! So maybe if you can afford it, hire a private detective. Or call some of the numbers in his phone and ask the girls who they are/how they know your man. He really should not be neglecting you when you are so heavily pregnant and you should be able to contact him at any time! Good luck, I hope it all works out for the best and you get the answers you need.