Question by Ebrio Martinez: how to know the cheating signs of a girl?
I would prefer answers from people that has been cheated on, but if you know something then just answer. thank you.
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Answer by Aeliine
every girl is different. some girls will be obvious about it and horrible at hiding it, and other girls, well, you`d never know until they told you.
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If she likes you, loves you, has your heart in her hand, says she will never leave you, Thats when you know shes blowing other dudes. Cannot trust women ever..
there’s two ways to tell. one, the contents of her purse, and her calls, texts, and messages.
I’ve been cheated on twice, and I kind of guessed it was happening. There weren’t really any signs, they were both natural flirts so the flirting wasn’t really a biggy. I just had that gut instinct you know?
Cancelling last minute, Secretive about simple things such as text messages & defensive when questioned…but even so there is no surefire way to tell whether someone is cheating, unless you catch them in the act!
little thing such as taking her phone with her when she goes to the toilet or shower. always texting or having random phonecalls. blowing you out at the last minute. not showing much interest. always being ‘busy’ lately. changing her appearance, for example, getting a new haircut or generally making more effort.
if you have a gut feeling she is cheating i would follow it. it tends to be right
if she likes you, she won’t
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very secretive on her cell phone,if all her text messages and web history are deleted from her phone,also if-she ‘s demanding to go out more on her own without you there and also if she makes excuses why she’s not in the mood.
I’m sorry to have to tell you this but you don’t need the smoking gun; you don’t have to catch them in bed together; you do not need proof that she is cheating. If you have enough circumstantial evidence to suspect that she is cheating that is enough to hold her responsible if she can’t prove she’s not… but don’t give her the chance just break it off if you have enough suspicions about her. If you suspect that someone is cheating they probably are or it would never have gotten this far.
I remember when I was around 15, my best friend’s mom [my Aunt basically] cheated on her husband. It was really obvious to my friend and I that she was cheating because:
1. She began to work out and dress really really nicely.
2. She was happier than she had been in years- and she showed it in the way she smiled and treated other people.
3. She spent more and more time going out with friends.
4. She would get mad when her husband or one of her kids asked where she was going/where she had been/why she was coming home so late/ etc…
5. She would banned her husband from using her phone, checking her email etc… Anything that might reveal something she was trying to hide.
6. She became really jealous and suspicious, which was out of character for her. Cheaters often suspect that their partner may be cheating on them because they know how easy it is to get away with it.
7. I don’t know personally what was going on in the bedroom, but I wouldn’t be surprised if she refrained from touching her husband or being intimate with him.
She isn’t thrilled to make time for you, starts becoming distant. When she looks in your eye, it seems as if she is hiding something or bothered/pained to see you. She goes out with other people and friends alot but doesn’t say exactly what she does (esp. if drinking/parties are involved).
🙁 I’ve been cheated on by a guy and the signs are similar. Looking back, I didn’t pay attention to any of the signs (I was a fool) and it never crossed my mind that he cheated until he hid me from all his fb pic’s and showed all the above signs. (Even then he said he loved only me and I believed him until his friend told me he had a new gf). Yeah, it was the harshest thing… not even the cheating, but that he lied to my face and strung me along like a fool while I continued to defend his lies and believe him. When he broke up with me (I still hadn’t known of the cheating until 2 weeks later) I remember telling him that he is a beautiful man and that no matter what anyone says about him, I will always find a million reasons in his defense. That I could never see him in any light but a positive one. Ughh, and then he started to cry and said that he is a bad person. And I said it’s fine he is breaking up and I still see him as a beautiful man. And he said “no! I’m not… so quit saying it. I’ve changed a lot and you deserve someone better who won’t take you for granted.” That was the only time he was truthful with me…. And it killed me because I didn’t know what had happened or anything. I was the typical innocent, naive girl who would NEVER think of cheating. And so I just looked at him with my big, innocent eyes (hehe) and knew he was no longer the same person.
🙁 UGH I hate thinking about that memory. But luckily I have a new bf who is very sweet and a real man who is truthful and hot and… so many good things 😀 Whew.
Good luck. Sorry I went on a tangent, but hope it helps!