Question by kbug20: I need guy’s opinions! Does this ever really happen…?
When a guy is naturally a cheater or lier or both, and he meets a girl that he really grows to care about. Will a boy really change his ways if he feels strongly enough about a girl, or is it something that’s just kinda programed into their system and they can’t really help it, or see what they’re doing till it’s too late? Or if a guy gets caught cheating, even if it’s out of charater, and even if the girlfriend stays with him after his mistake, if it happens again is he more likely to come clean because his girl was so forgiving the first time, or is it just nature for any guy to try and hide it??
Best answer:
Answer by isaaac
its nature to try and hide it
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What do you think? Answer below!.
Once a liar and cheater, always a liar and a cheater…nuf said
First off, a “boyfriend” can’t “cheat” on you. The whole boyfriend/girlfriend deal means just that: you’re friends who have no real commitment to each other. If there was a real commitment, then you would not be talking about your “boyfriend,” you’d be talking about your “husband.”
The rules are different once you are married. Don’t try to mix the metaphors.
Until that real, firm, life-long commitment happens, the dude is free to do as he pleases, and you have no ties on him. That’s the way it is. If you want him to “not cheat” then you need to get the real commitment from him that implies. If you’re not willing to wait for the real commitment, then don’t whine about him not living up to it.
Now you’re not exactly “whining” about it — but your complaint/question is screaming to me that you’re “boyfriend” isn’t living up to your expectations of fidelity. And you’re attempting to tie the “rules of engagement” in a hap-hazard relationship (which is what you have with the whole boyfriend/girlfriend deal) with those of a real relationship (which is what you have with a marriage).
No, he will not change.
Males of all species attempt to procreate at every opportunity.
Human males being self-aware do not, or at least should not attempt to have sex with anything that moves, if they are “in a relationship”
So, now you have an answer, what you choose to do with it is up to you. If he is cheating on you now and he continues to cheat and you continue to forgive: what you have is the definition of insanity: repeating behavior and expecting different results.