Question by Melissa M: i really want to find out if my partner is cheating?
i have this weird feeling my partner is cheating on me, i want to go through his text but i think he deletes them….i really want to find a way to get a report of all his text how do i do that?
Best answer:
Answer by Mrs.Karma
whatever happened to women asking instead of snooping… what are your reasons for believing that he is cheating? or is it a gut feeling? follow his ass… or hell just call cheaters so they can do all the work!
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Mark my words: no good can come of this.
Check phone call history. Web history. Follow him. Look on the internet how to know if your man is cheating signs. Is he out late?. Ask him about it?
You’re a snooping, deceitful woman.
Why wouldn’t someone cheat on you.
You need to change your ways, fix your own personal issues before blaming him and being suspicious of him.
You love drama clearly, so he is looking for an escape.
Make the changes you personally need to make !!!!
If you want to find out if he is cheating set him up. Or steal his phone one day when you have off and make it look like he dropped it on his way out. Then you will see who has been texting him through out the day. And you can follow him. ANd don’t listen to these other answers the esmi guy is dumb. And men rarely admit cheating when you ask them so you do have to do a little investigation sometimes And if you have a feeling more then likely he will be cheating on you. I’ve called all the number in my guys phone even the guys to see who really answered. You have to be slick and witty. I always say I have the wrong number or if it’s a female I’ll ask him about it. If he wants to be with you and really does love you he will b e understanding and loving like my boyfriend. We have come a long way.
It is more important to decide what you will do when you confirm that he is indeed cheating on you.
Basically, you have no relationship with this man. So, why would you want to snoop? Any REAL relationship is based on trust and you obviously have no trust/faith in this man.
Move on. And if you don’t move on, I’d tell him to run from you and your snooping @ss.
Unless you can snag his phone bill there is no way to get a copy of his records unless your the police. If your gut feeling tells you he might be cheating then there is a good chance that he is. I suggest you look online for signs of a cheating man, just Google it and go from there.
i think if your partner really cheats, then you could see any instance.
without finding any text it should not be wise to blame anyone.
so please be cool and have patience and see whether there is any
instance of his cheating or text and then ask him why cheating.
-thanks good luck.
It does not matter if he is cheating or not!!!! If you think he is, there is nothing that is going to change that!!! Try dating someone you trust!!!!
You need to sit down and ask if he is and let him know how you feel. Snooping will do you no good.
I personally would have to have a bit more other evidence though, like diminshed desire to have sex, staying out late, working late, charge card bills to bars and lounges on the nights he claims to be other events, paying more attention to his physical appearance, smelling perfume….stuff like that. And if those things were present in addition to his deleting emails and texts, then I probably would find it worth the $ $ to have him followed so that I could take swift action with a divorce attorney.
If they are breathing they are cheating.