Question by benson27: Caught a Cheater: Keep On Going or End It Now?
I don’t want to give details, but my gf of one year has been cheating on and off for quite some time. I’ve got her redhanded and can continue to get more information about her cheating. I’ve got to admit, I’m curious about to what extent this is happening and for how long. Apparently there’s been more than one guy. I can string this along to get more information or I can cut her and move on. She’s begging me to work things out after I accused her of cheating after I went out of town and couldn’t get her to take my call. Now it’s verified and I don’t know if I should get more dirt or move on.
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Answer by JTP777
once a cheater always a cheater. Happend to me and i didn’t learn. Be smart, you can find better.
What do you think? Answer below!.
More dirt isn’t going to change the fact that she cheated, it will only make you more suspicious of the next girl in your life. Get rid of the cheater and find someone you can trust.
Just move on.
Don’t waste anymore of you time and energy on someone who obviously likes to sleep around. If you want to be one of many on her list of boyfriends, go right ahead. If you expect faithfullness, move on right now. What would be the point in quantifying a cheat? Does it matter if it’s 3 guys or 7 or 20?
If you know for fact that’s she’s cheating. Just end it. It’ll save you a lot of hassle and headache. And possibly STDs.
Since it is quite obvious that she has cheated on you more than once and doesn’t have anything invested in her relationship with you, I think that you should move on. She’s not worth it, and you shouldn’t let her think that she can walk all over you like that.
let her go, NOW.
once a cheater always a cheater do you want her to be the mother of your kids.
didn’t think so.
Slip out the back Jack
Make a new plan Stan
No need to be coy Roy
Etc..you know the rest
Dump her! If karma is really as great as it has been to me, she will be cheated on with her next boyfriend. You don’t need a girlfriend like that. She could be gathering STD’s, getting pregnant, etc. You have to be careful, so leave her because no one should have to be cheated on. Quite honestly, you should have dumped her when you caught her.
Ask yourself this, and answer yourself truthfully :
Do you really want more dirt?
My guess is that you don’t really want to know the nitty gritty. Everyone in this situation THINKS they want to know, but no one really does. Don’t hold on to her on the pretenses that you are looking for more information. Get out before you end up more hurt than you are now.
Dude don’t be a duck.Move on.I just had the same problem but she denied everything.Rather than causing some mental stress and seem like one of those guys”girl cheats while hes at work” Just let it go.There’s more to life than her esteem issues.