Question by imtheboss: How did you catch your cheating partner?
What happens after you find out he’s been cheating? does it ever go back to being the same?
I suspect my husband is cheating and i know that i have to find out for sure that i am right but i don’t know what I’ll do when i find out.
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Answer by John
beat him to it find his best friend hahah a or me lol no its never the same
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I received a phone call. You will be in shock…avoid the details and go with your heart. Good luck!!
Go online to Cheater.com and ask them to investigate. They will tell you for sure if he is cheating or not.
You will either divorce him or forgive him.
I came home from rehab early and they were at her house.
We tried about 8 months later, but the past always haunted us and it never worked out.
my mother-in-law told me the best way she ever got over someone is: she went and slept with someone…got over it really fast…then just keep busy…make yourself happy spend his money till you sign those papers:)
She got drunk and told me.
She also told me she felt bad and thought we should have a threesome with her skanky lesbian friend to make it up to me.
She borrowed my mobile phone because hers was broken and with mine you have to delete things twice which she did not know so there were a number of SMS to her ex which had not been deleted.
It is a kick in the guts when you find out and the trust factor has gone and I am not sure if it will ever be restored to the way it was before this.
Her partner in cheating’s wife – the next door neighbour – told me what my wife and her husband were up to.
My neighbor told me when my first husband was cheating. The best way to catch him is to see what he does when he is away from home. If he is suppose to be somewhere check. If he is out at the bar or something and you think he is with someone go there after they have been there a while or have someone else go there for you first. When a lot of people cheat they over explain things, like they have all the bases covered and they tell you before you can question. I hope that made sense. It would be easier to know when and where you think he is cheating.
When I found out that my wife had slept with a guy I confronted her and she denied it.
I confronted her again and she finally broke down and admitted that she messed up.
All of this stems from lack of attention on my part. She felt lonely and not loved.
I never touched my wife for six months after she fooled around on me.
I actually wanted her to divorce me, but she didn’t. She actually stuck it out and stayed with me.
She knew she messed up and accepted her punishment which was no sex from me for at least six months.
Today…we are still together, but hey, I could care less right now if my wife said she slept with somebody again. I’m too old to worry about crap like that now.
My husband moved out saying he didn’t want our marriage to get any worse then it was so he moved into his own apartment 4 blocks away. It broke my heart to see him leave but there was nothing i could do to get him to stay. After about one month he started coming around we never stopped having sex the whole time he had his own place. This went on for 2 1/2 years i felt i had the best of both worlds i no longer had to cook dinner every night or wash and iron his clothes or worry about him getting mad if i wanted to go out with the girls or coming home late. We dated and had fun it was like when we first met. Then he moved back home that’s when i found out he had been cheating on me. I was putting away some of his clothes and i found a card from a co-worker of his they had been sleeping together 8 months prior to him moving out and only stopped having sex with her 2 months before he move back home with me.He not only broke my heart once but twice i was a basket case for a long time. He pleaded and begged and cried telling me how sorry he was and of course how he would never do it again how he would die first before hurting me again. That was 10 years ago and he has been a completely different man then before. Before he moved out he wouldn’t open up it was like he was afraid that i would hurt him if he show his real feelings. But now he tells me everyday how much he loves me and how lucky he is to have me as his wife. I don’t know what happened to him but i like the man who came home to me much better then the one who left me. As far as going back to the way it was before the affair i will never trust him that’s gone and the feeling of discovering each other is gone he is mine and i am his is definitely is gone.
well, i c alot of crazy answers. But, running out and sleeping with someone else is far from the answer. I would follow his azz, when he says im working late tonight, or im going out with the guys, i’d be in the parking lot and hour before he regularly leaves work and follow him to wherever he ends up, then sit there until he comes out..thats when you blind side him..yes, you need a friends car to get by wit it, but hey, your gut usually is 100% true and no, he isnt gonna come home and admit it..so, be patient, dont ask alot of questions, let him think he has it all worked out. My hubby knows I would love to catch his azz and he knows i am just as sneaky and I would be a fly on the wall if it came down to it..lol..IF they gonna cheat, theres nothing to stop them, you just gotta be on your toes to catchum..Its not to hard to do either..As, for me, id follow him for days, I wouldnt go off the first time I seen it with my own eyes, Id have enough to make him tongue tied..and then, leave his azz sitting like a lost duck while I got my life together and found new love..a friend of mine found out about her hubby cheating weeks before x-mas, and on x-mas day she kissed his cheek and told him ” i love u, and I got you something but it didnt get here in time, so tomorrow when you go to town, go by the post office and pick it up” He had a smile and the next day he went into the post office to only receive divorce papers alone with photos of his cheating…Now, that was a great come back!!
Tammy and Teenie good one I like those.
Stupidity and wanted to get caught.
Time doesn’t erase the pain. It does fade away but the thoughts are there. Sometimes its like a title wave coming back and you can not stop it. Its hard.
Your whole outlook on the relationship is going to change. There is no way of stopping that. The worse part that happens and I have talked to women about this. Is your self esteem is going to fall and its not easy to get it back up to where you once were. No matter what he says or what he does you will always have the inch of doubt in the back of your head.
Good Luck.
First of all, I’m sorry that you are in this situation in the first place. I know what you are going through. My husband cheated on me about 3 years ago. He actually told me about it. Does it ever go back to the same? Well, it’s probably different for everyone – but for us it took a good year before I was able to fully forgive him. We went through a lot of counseling and read a lot of books. It was important for me to try to save our marriage. A lot of people wouldn’t give their husband’s a second chance, but I believe that everyone makes mistakes. If my husband left me the first time I made a big mistake, we wouldn’t have made it this long! We’ve been married for 10 years now and our marriage is stronger now than it was before the infidelity. We had to work on learning how to make each other happy and that has brought us closer. I hope for your sake that he’s not cheating, but if you want to find out for sure, you can check out the website below for some good information. Good luck!