Question by : infidelity?
There are many forms of infidelity. How do I avoid the temptation of infidelity — the urge to stray from my wife?
Thanks for the help.
There is no other woman. There are enticing Internet spirits. My wifey doesn’t drive, I have to drive her everywhere. She needs to learn to drive so we both can have some independence and alone time. There are no children. She blames me for not knowing how to drive and for not being pregnant. I am not really interested is sex with anyone. I work on the house all night and weekend while she sits in front of the computer or TV. She shops on-line a lot, spends more than she makes. She is like a teen — no offense. Like a daughter more than a wife — I am 12 years older than her.
Best answer:
Answer by Angel Eve
Realize how good you’ve got it and then imagine life without her. If you cheat, it will eventually be found out. Most likely ending your marriage.
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You make a decision not to cheat, and you don’t. It’s called having a backbone, being a man, having morals and character.
Just be a man of character & integrity..
There are no magic spells to help you remain faithful…
Train your eyes and control your thoughts.
dan if you ever feel somthing abnout another women you need to leave your wife now!
You have asked this question before you got married. You have vowed before GOD. Maybe you should seek counseling. Maybe the both of you have lost interest in each other. Before you stray you need to divorce or come up with ways to bring back the excitement in your relationship.
if u love your wifey then temptation should not be a issue think about it like this if u wanted to be with other females of give into temptaion then u wouldnt of married her. just tell yourself that she the one and no other b!tch matters plus u would hate to lose someone u love over a fling or something dumb like that. u are a man so u know when a woman is trying to come on to u or something so just remove yourself from the situation
How about taking that same energy it would take to stray and find someone else and use it wisely by staying with your wife? Some women have to be forced to take a break and make time for their partners, if not they feel guilt. Find a sitter and go to a spa together, make her meet you somewhere because ‘you have a flat tire or some mechanical issue’ and tell her it’s going to take a couple hours and then surprise her with reservations. Next questions posted here should be – how to surprise the wife in a new and creative way. Love what you have or free her to find love.
if you love your wife – you wouldn’t be asking this question. you can either grow old and gray with her or without her. but we’re all going to grow old and gray……mess it up now – you will be utterly ALONE! (point is: think of the future; infidelity will mess up your whole life – then you’ll regret it – you will end up with neither woman – and you will never find someone who really trusts you) save yourself the trouble, dude…
Figuring out what it is about the other woman that is drawing you in and making you have these feelings and find those same qualities in your mate. I mean really, it’s not worth the heartache it would cause if you decide to cheat. Be honest with yourself is your wife and children worth a piece of azz?
Dont ever be alone with a woman. very simple. ie. your someplace, everyone leaves, one woman still there, say bye and hightale it out of there. if you are never alone with any woman ceptin your wife you cant cheat.
also i recommend trying God and salvation. That was what my husband needed.
If you love your wife then you will not stray or give in to temptation. Be supportive and encourage your wife to drive. Spend more quality time with her. You said she blames you for not having children. Why is that..don’t you want any? Didn’t you dicuss this before marriage? Seek marriage counselling if necessary if you want to stay in your marriage. You said she was 12 years younger so there may be times when she may not seem mature acting in your eyes but then you should have noticed this before marrying her. She obviously needs more of your attention and if you were not out there trying to avoid the temptation and urge to stray you would have more time to devote to her and your vows.