Question by pinkypink: Nice guy but a cheater?
I love my boyfriend sooo much. We live together for 1 1/2 years. He’s so generous, romantic, wonderful sweet, fun and he has a stabil job and good income too … but his weakness is that he’s a cheater. I caught him 4 times with different girls, with video, sms, receipts (movie, clothes). He always mad if I confront him about this, most of the time he deny it. what should I do? It makes me feel that I am just one of them.
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Answer by blonddoctor
There is no such thing as a nice guy who is a cheater….MOVE ON!
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dump him! nice guys don’t cheat. doesn’t matter all the other stuff he does he still cheats. don’t let him make you feel bad about yourself
Wake up! Hello? Nice guys are NOT, I repeat NOT cheaters.
He is NOT nice, sweet or fun! Hello??? YOU caught him yourself! Why stay?!
I dont know maybe its a man thing.
I don’t know maybe I haven’t been so much in love, but I would never, ever keep him around. Get rid of him, if he doesn’t respect you enough to keep it in his pants, then you should look for someone that will love and you like you love them.
you have to move on….get away from him. He’ll end up giving you an STD!
Once a cheater always a cheater. The question is how much are you willing to take.
What should I do? LEAVE HIM. Ewww – why would you want to be with a cheater anyway? He has no respect for you whatsoever. You can find someone who is generous, romantic, stable and all the other things in another man. A man that is not a cheater. Once a cheater always a cheater. Plus do you really want a man that cheats on you with other women? There are a lot of STDS out there – and AIDS.
You need to find a nice guy who is NOT a cheater. They’re out there – good luck.
Nice guy and cheater dont go together. And your not one of them, your worse off. He is having his cake and eating it too while your probably doing his laundry, cleaning the apt and cooking for him. The other girls get the same thing you do but they dont have to wash his shorts. Your getting the sh*t end of the stick here. Get out and get out now.
Okay -he cheats, what more do you need? Cheaters are never winners- just players, so this means you are being played! Could you ever have children with a man like this? How do you know he uses protection with these other women? I am sure there are more than you know about. He’s probably sweet because he feels guilty- think about it. Do yourself a favor- get out of this one fast- before it is too late!
You are just one of them to him. Move on, you can do better. Nice guys don’t cheat. And the only reason he’s so “sweet” and “wonderful” to you is bc he feels a little guilty. But not guilty enough to stop.
GET RID OF HIM, YOU CAN’T BE A NICE GUY AND A CHEATER. HE’S A CHEATER. …NICE GUYS DON’T CHEAT.
What are you waiting for? Dump Him!! He will continue to do this to you. You should have made him suffer the first time around. By the fourth time, you are just enabling him to do this.
Dump Him it doesn’t matter how nice of a person you think he is no nice person would treat someone they love that way he is not worth it think about it y’all aren’t even married and he is cheating y’all have only been together for 1.5 years and he is cheating there is no way he is going to be able to faithfully committ to a lifetime together and who knows by being with him you may be blocking a chance with a better man who will treat you right.
If your best friend came up to you and told you she was with this guy who is great and wonderful but he sleeps around on her, would you advise her to stay with him? I doubt that would be your advice. Why do you feel it is okay to let this guy treat you like this? When you close your eyes and picture him on top of those 4 other women he has had sex with in the mere 18 months you have been together, does he really still seem like a “nice” guy? That is not how I, or anyone I know, would define the word “nice.”
You “are” one of them. A NICE GUY doesn’t cheat. There are many good men out there. Go get one.
Usually cheaters are the way you have just described your boyfriend, “charming” is really the brief word for you description. Honey, this will not change ever. He will always be a cheater and you have 2-options, live with it or leave him. Don’t even bother to confront him, or course he gets mad, it’s his defense so you wont brag about it anymore. It’s his victim act. Now it’s your choice to always feel like one of them and let him go on with this or to have some dignity and leave him. I’m sorry if you don’t like the answer but you do not need no more proof that what you already have. He’s unworthy of you. THE BEST OF LUCK if you decide to stay thinking that he will change. Believe me, I know.
Are you crazy? Get some self confidence and move on with your life. How can you look someone in the eyes and love them When they are out looking other people in their eyes when it should be you. Please do yourself a favor and move on. Everyone deserves someone to love THEM not the rest of the world. Be Strong
you are one of them so either dump hin and move on or keep him and be his door mat and someone to stick till he gets bored and finds a new receptical
You are. Work on your self esteem You deserve someone who will love you and treat you with respect.
If you don’t leave you will have these problems for as long as you stay. He is a cheater and a liar and you allow him to do it because you think you need him and he knows it.
who would want to be with him? u are pretty much allowing him to slut around. if u stay with him, he will continue to cheat. if i were u i would leave and see if he changes, or i would let him catch me cheating to see how he felt then.
This is a serious-as-a-heart-attack question. How on earth can you love someone who cheats on you with 4 different girls? What should you do? Two choices. Either learn to accept his cheating (along with any STDs he brings home to you) or kick his sorry a__ to the curb. Hitler and Saddam Hussein were probably nice guys to somebody.
Nice guy but a cheater… isn’t that an oxymoron? Not having any qualms about hurting you and betraying your trust is not nice.