Question by Thomas: Why do I feel such a strong urge to sleep with her when I suspect her infidelity?
When I suspect my wife’s infidelity I am full of anger, but I also have a powerful urge to sleep with her. It makes dealing with the situation much more difficult. Why does this happen? Has anyone else experienced this?
Best answer:
Answer by MissM
Maybe it turns you on just a little. Try an open relationship
What do you think? Answer below!.
When you’re really stressed out does it make you have sexual urges? Maybe its not the fact that your wife might be doing that, but because of the stress of it.
You want her approval more now that you know your losing her. maybe its sub-consciencely. But its still there.
Well, I suppose you want to prove to her and yourself that you are man enough for her. I don’t really know.. Are you married? You should straight up ask her if she is cheating on you. If she is then you know what you need to do..
well, i am assuming im much younger than you, & you might dismiss my opinion seeing as how i’m not married, but i’ve had a similar experience, something close to yours.
i was with this guy who has been with over ten people, & i’ve only been with one.
I’ve always been the type of girl that isn’t loose & I just free willingly go with anyone, but with him it was different.
I would get so upset thinking about the fact that he’d been with so many more people than i had, but the urge to be with him was stronger than i’ve ever had with anyone else.
As for the answer to WHY it happens, i dont think anyone will have an answer.
It’s your way to ‘mark’ her as yours, subconsciously. I was cheated on once and also felt these strange impulses, even as my heart was breaking. It’s just a weird thing that some people do when they’re being betrayed or believe that they’re being betrayed. You want her to be with you and only you.
I don’t know man. Maybe it’s a psychological thing? I honestly can’t say but it could be a cuckold type of fantasy or even something deep rooted. If it is bothering you enough you should talk with a therapist and see if it can help you come to terms with your feelings or figure out why it gives you sexual urges.
Good luck man.