If your husband is truly faithful to you, this is something to thank him for. Studies show that faithful husbands today are rare specimens.
All newlyweds are firmly convinced that love is forever and they will live happily and die in one day. But, unfortunately, statistics show that three out of four (!) men cheat on their wives! And two-thirds of women whose husbands cheated on them are absolutely unaware of it. And this is despite the fact that all the signs of infidelity are there …
Every year more and more women learn in horror that their “faithful” (as they always thought) husband either wants a divorce or simply has an affair. Some of them see their savings disappear because family resources are spent on maintaining an extramarital affair. And there are some who are, to put it mildly, unpleasantly surprised to find out that they have sexually transmitted disease (STD) …
Why is it that the wife is always the last to know? Is it just because all deceived wives just simply do not want to notice the obvious? Or they just simply do not know on what to pay attention? Remember: you cannot afford not to notice the signs that are always there!
Here’s what you should pay attention to:
1. Appearance.
Man having extramarital affair (or at least thinking about it) will make an effort to look more attractive. He will try to improve their appearance in some way be. If you notice changes in his wardrobe, that he became more attentive to his body and personal hygiene, beware! Usually, it is the first and most obvious sign of infidelity. Husbands always try to look better when they have (or planning to have) other woman in his …
2. The way he treats you
It is inevitable, that his attitude towards you will change if he has another woman, even on a subconscious level. And it is not always changing for the worse! Many cheating husbands feel guilty and try to make it up by excessively passionate toward his wife!
3. His work.
Work is number one reason for most time spent away from home. When men have affairs, they usually use work as a cover, everyone knows that. You have to be aware if your husband’s work hours spike up. It’s one thing when your husband is always late from work, but if all of a sudden the number of late meetings and business trips went way up – then be aware!
4. Daily routine.
Everyone has a daily routine, more or less respected. If your husband’s daily routine that you had gotten use to for years changes –pay attention! Man do not change their routines often!
5. Affairs cost money.
If your husband has an affair, it is more likely than not that he would want to entertain his “other” woman. No matter where he will get the funds for it, the main thing is that sooner or later it will affect your family budget and you would see the difference.
6. Mobile phone.
Mistresses require constant attention that requires lots of communication. Cell phones are one of the reasons most women find out that their husbands are cheating. You can learn a lot by checking your husband’s cell phone periodically and viewing the details of his calls and texts. The main plus point: the husband should not know that you check it.
7. Car
Car is one of the most important sources of evidence for suspicious wives. After all, he probably uses his or family car to drive the “other” woman” around. Evidence can be found anywhere – under and between the seats, in the pockets, glove compartment, under rugs …
8. Change in your sex life
Pay attention if there is any change in your sex life with your husband. If you notice that he requires (not asking to experiment) something that you never practice before, it might mean he does it from “other” woman. And if he is all of a sudden “too tired” to perform on a daily basis, that might mean that he is spent with someone else. If you suspicious – get yourself checked for STDs as most of the time cheating husbands become careless and become the source!
9. Eating habits.
Changes in taste preferences may be influenced by it mistress. Without even realizing it, at home he may still prefer the food that she likes.
10. Personal smell
Each person has a unique smell, and most wifes know the smell of their husbands. And if you pay attention, you’ll notice a change in it.
11. The physical evidence.
Sometimes they are just begging to be discovered. Check out his wallet and pockets, drawers in his desk, garage … Even his trash can become a place of important finds, of course, if you want to dig in it.
12. His relationship with other women.
Remember that most men cheat with someone they know well – with co-workers, neighbors, friends of the family. If you suspect your husband of infidelity, especially pay attention to his relationship with women you know well. And do not think that your woman friends are not capable of betraying you and cheat with your husband, because studies show that, unfortunately, this happens very often..