Question by Hire Me 101: What are some signs of a cheating partner?
I am a little suspicious that something is going on with my boyfriend. What are some signs that your partner is cheating?
Best answer:
Answer by gangstaG
The fact that your suspicious is usualy a good one
What do you think? Answer below!.
Awkwardness
A space between you two
Out late
Unfamiliar numbers
etc
no want is cheating me…all is my best friends…
your gut feeling is the best factor there is to know someone is cheating..also…
new phone numbers contacting him
new “Guy friends” in his phone book..my ex bf that was cheating used to put girl’s numbers under guy’s names (asshole..i know)
he won’t be as affectionate towards you
not calling you/spending as much time with you
suddenly mentioning new girls nonchalantly..
if you feel like he is; he is. trust me.
Ok I’m a dude ok well the things you got to look out for if he acts differently from you by like ok if you text him and you expect him to like write whole good message talking about his day and stuff he he didn’t he prob is or just watch his attitude towards you and look for hickies check his phone and look in the inbox of his text messages and look for pictures and contacts look for a name that you think is made up and call it. ok if not idk he a dwib for doing that to you.
lets see…1.) becoming overly defensive when asked about their whereabouts or what they did for the day. 2.) weird phone calls that make him/her have to leave the room whispering. 3.) not wanting to answer the phone in your presence too. 4.) rumors sometimes from your friends or your partners. 5.) becoming more and more concerned about if you are cheating.. usually a sign of guilty conscience. uhmm those are usually the obvious signs…
Phone calls are dry and are not as frequent
Does not pick up when you call
Seems irritated with you for Small things or no reasons
No romance between you or it slows down
Stays out late with his “boys”……..yeah right!
Basically, it is a gut feeling you have that only you feel and know to be true.
okay from someone thats been cheated on i can tell you a few ways you can tell ……..he gets to where he does not want to spend any time with you and the time he is well he seems distracted or he will pick fights with you.another way is watch how much he uses his cell phone and pay attention to who he is calling or who is calling him.and a big way to tell is if your sex life has seemed to stoped if he is not in too it anymore.i could go on but honestly you will know in your heart,its a sense us women have ……….so good luck and if he is cheating just cut him lose its not worth the pain………
well the one cheating is us ally the one accusing the other of cheating..by this i mean (who where you with,)or where have you been? that is a tall tail sign that there is some insecurities.or not coming over when they say,and or not coming home at all.
These are the 7 main signs of cheating:
1. Lost time
2. Lost money
3. Attitude changes
4. Changes in daily behavior
5. Changes in phone and computer use
6. Changes in your relationship
7. Intuition
Your partner suddenly starts stealing moments away from communal time. While this could just indicate hard work, it might be a cause for concern if your partner consistently and unexpectedly works late.
Money is spent and unaccounted for – “If you want to play, you have to pay.” It’s a big red flag when your partner doesn’t want you to see the bills, hides the bills when they come in and only lets you know the amount (if you are the one paying), shreds the bills, locks them up in a room/file cabinet/container that you have no access to or has the bills sent to work or a post office box.
The single most telltale sign of a cheating partner? Having to ask that question in the first place. LISTEN TO YOUR GUT! An intuition (gut feeling) that something is not right usually is a sign you may have a cheating problem. See the article below for more information.
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