Question by Jessica: What are the warning signs of someone cheating on you?
I think the guy i’m dating is cheating on me. He has a history of cheating on people he dates. what are the warning signs of it?
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Answer by adrilorepena
HIs History of cheating duh!!!!!!! Dump him.
Add your own answer in the comments!.
smelling of perfume
sleeping in seperate rooms
not kissing or having relations anymore
Well the biggest one is “he has a history of cheating on people he dates.” So I think you answered your own question.
Once a cheater, always a cheater (for the most part anyway). So yes, most likely he’s taking you for an idiot. Drop him.
Check his phone, If he’s deleting history call logs or texts. Thats a huge sign.
warning number 1 “He has a history of cheating on people he dates”
here are ten signs that could tell you when your lover is actually cheating on your relationship.
1. Is he/she overprotective about his/her mobile phone? It is so easy to cheat on someone in this day and age of modern technology. Fortunately, or unfortunately, it is also easy to catch someone using the very technology that facilitates the betrayal. New generation mobile phones these days do have logs that record the numbers we call and the numbers that contact us. Also, text messaging is becoming very popular these days, and concrete proof of treacherous affections can be discovered by checking the SMS inbox of most phones. Naturally, the person engaged in such a betrayal would dare not show his/her mobile phone for fear of getting caught.
2. Is there a significant decrease in the time he/she allots for you? The body has its limitations. If he/she is all gung ho with the other party, it is expected that he/she will be too tired to give you the attention you expect.
3. Is there a significant decrease in the level of affection he/she is showing you? Simple caresses and gentle kisses that diminish in frequency can be quite telling of a wandering heart. The attention that he/she used to shower you with is most probably spent on someone else.
4. Is he/she usually gone for days under the guise of a business trip or meeting with friends, when he/she never used to pursue such affairs? He/She may be engaged in an affair of another variety, and he/she is merely using seemingly valid reasons as excuses.
5. Do you catch him/her with small lies more often than you could count? Small lies beget bigger lies, and sometimes, small lies can be used to conceal even more dastardly lies. A lie is a lie. Treat it seriously. Once discovered, prepare yourself to unveil more skeletons in his/her closet.
6. Does he/she miss important dates which he/she never used to forget? The human mind also has its limits, and when it focuses on someone else, the memories reserved for us are often left at the backseat.
7. Does he/she fail to call you at appropriate times? It is quite difficult to sneak in a call or some form of communication when he/she is with someone else, right?
8. In the same light, do you often catch him/her sneaking out during a date to place a call? When you do ask him/her about it, he/she would just reason out that it is a call for the boss or some friends? This, also, can be quite telling, especially when he/she does not show such a behavior in the past.
9. Internet affairs are growing in numbers in this day and age. If he/she is spending more time in cyberspace that normal, be wary. Chances are, he/she is exchanging some correspondence with a person he/she is interested with.
10. Does he/she exhibit a short fuse whenever you ask him/her about his/her day? Does he/she suddenly make a big issue about his/her need for privacy, when such was not even a consideration in the past? He/She may be positioning himself/herself to get some space to be able to pursue an affair with another.
Of course, all of these signs can be as simple as personality quirks that we all have to deal with when it comes to our partners. What makes them danger signs is when they are exhibited suddenly, whereas they never even manifested themselves before. Such an immediate shift in personality can be the result of a cheating heart.
I’ve known guys who get more insecure about what their girlfriend is doing after they cheat. They’ll ask you where you’re going and with who and just be really controlling or curious as to who you’re with. But if he has a history of it, and you’re suspicious, follow what your gut is telling you. Chances are he could do it again.
if he has history of cheating wat makes u think he wont be doing it now
Secretive behavior, being gone and lying about where he’s been, starting to tell you the woman he’s seeing is a “friend”, others start mentioning they’ve seen him without you, he gets phone calls and acts weird — talking all low and sexy.
He starts dressing better, looking better and acting like he did when he met you.
Oh yeah and once a cheater — always a cheater. RED FLAG!
well past cheating doesn’t help.
maybe leaving the room to talk on the phone.
hiding his phone.
making up reasons to leave.
not saying where he was or what he was doing.
but then again, any of these signs can not be cheating.
why do you think he’s cheating?
first of all follow ur gut instict…. if u feel like he is he more than like is!
He will show like hes not interested in u or always wanna fight for no reason… But let me tell u if u do find out he is end it there n dont go back bc then he will think its ok to keep doing it…
Is she female? Than chances are she’s cheatin. Just the way it is.
none of these signs are definite. but SOME warning signs could be
1) he is getting more secretive.
2) he becomes more distant
3) change in sexual pattern
4) when you ask him what he did or who he was with; he might be hesitant to answer, or he might just avoid answering the question all together
5) overall, if you have a gut feeling he is cheating; i would double check- maybe figure out for sure if he is telling the truth.
Hope this helps!
I’ve been cheated on and some of the ways i found out was
1. he looked at me differently
2. always comparing me to someone else
3. the way he was treating me (treat me good one day then like crap the next)
4. He didnt wanna hang out with me
5. the people he cheated on told me (my friends)
(n no i wasnt clingy or any of that other crap I was just stupid and didnt pay that much attention to the signs)
First of all, if he is known as a cheater, why in the world would you date him? Oh, let me guess, you romanticized that “he will be different with me.” BULL CRAP!
Once a cheater always a cheater.
Here are the signs/red flags:
He disappears – won’t return texts, calls and you know he has his phone on him, but you don’t know where he is.
He is secretive about his communication (acts nervous if you ask to see his phone, etc because he has something to hide…call logs, texts)
He begins to act distant toward you, or starts disrespecting you or showing a lack of interest in you.
He begins to say he wants to spend more time with his “friends” than with you.
He becomes overly suspicious of what you’re doing. Since he knows he is doing something behind your back, he becomes suspicious that you might be doing the same thing.
If he acts suspicious in any way, then there is something he is hiding.
give him the benefit of the dount.. but if he becomes distant… more like a buddy.. mor 1 word answers.. or confuses your names. hes most lkely cheating
Well, if a man’s wife doesn’t want sex with him EVER, and always turns down his requests week after week, then either he’s such a bad disgusting lover that she hates him, OR she’s cheating and doesn’t want to be “unfaithful” to her new lover, and that’s why she doesn’t want to make love to her current husband.
And if a man is married to a woman and she shows absolutely NO desire to want to make love to him and for year after year never has asked him to “go to bed” or “make love”, then he might as well just go to the lawyer and sign the divorce papers right now, because she’s all but given up on him anyways and she’s going to soon be cheating on him, even if she’s not doing it right now.
First listen to your gut instinct.Then if he is changing the way he grooms him self.Are if he has to be to work early, then normal are stay later then normal.Are he is to busy to talk on the phone.These Are a sure way too know he is cheating.Ooh yeah and in least he tells you he has and that is not likely..Wish you luck hopefully he is not..
They just act odd – not themselves – and you know in your gut something is wrong.
They are away more often – hide their phone or clear it out. Turn it on silent when they are with you.
Try giving him a hickey on his chest – if he won’t let you, it’s because someone else is seeing him naked.
Good luck.