Question by coleewalker: how do you catch a cheater in the act?
If they lock you out of everything is their any other way to find out. He keeps his phone with him at all times and I can tell he is lying. I found emails him talking to another girl and she denied anything going on as well. He blames me for everything and always leaves. When I finally moved out within 2 months he moved in with me again. Now I feel weak and always crying cause I know something is going on i just dont know how to get strong and move on. I never ever thought he would be the guy to cheat but the last year has been miserable and we have been together 8
Best answer:
Answer by C.
STALK HIM
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hidden camera. but dont lie to him and tell them you are going to be doing something else when your really watching him cuz you will just be as guilty of lying as he/she is.
i know this is kind of odd, but when he says he’s going out to do something, shodow him and find out what he’s doing, or show him the e-mail, and ask for an explanation
stalk him
Chances are…. you need to move the heck on with your life 😀
LMAO.
STALK HIM!.
GO ON A SHOW LMAO.
MAURY.
JERRY SPRINGER.
UM…
FIND THE GIRL.
STALK HER. LOL.
KILL THEM BOTH.
LOL.
BUT FOR REAL, TRY AND TALK
TO HIM ABOUT IT AND IF YOU KNOW
SOMETHINGS GOING ON AND HES LYING,
LEAVE HIS ASS AND HIS DIRTY MISTRESS.
=]
It sounds like an unhappy situation. Why do you need to catch him in the act? If he’s making you miserable, then why don’t you just break up?
If you have to stalk him then you don’t need him because you can do bad by yourself. He’s accusing you of doing things because 9 times out of 10 he’s the one doing the dirt. Move on let him know that he’s not worth your time. 8 years is a long time but all you are doing is stressing yourself and for what because he is still going to be doing whatever he’s doing. No sense in asking him to be straight forward because all he will do is lie. Kick him out.
Went through this exact same situation 6 months ago. I know its kinda creepy, but if you really want to catch him in the act, follow him and see for yourself. But if you truly believe he is doing it anyway, you dont need to catch him, just leave him and tell him you’re unhappy in the relationship