Question by Luisana: How do you know when your partner is cheating on you ?
how do you know ? i think i let my boy friend out too much. i think he might be cheating on me. i let him go to parties. and he textes me the whole day or calls but , when i let him go to this one party he liked almost never texed me or never called. and i dont knoe im scared.
Best answer:
Answer by Real Talk….Ya dig
you have issues!!! let me just go out on a limb and say…..he was partying at the party like most party goers do when they go to a party…….idk
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You “let” him out? You’re not his parent, so you don’t let him do anything. He does because he wants to.
Anyway, talk to him about it. If you can’t trust him, don’t be with him. Simple.
Just use reverse psychology on him and act like you don’t care and he’ll start texting you all the time!
you should not be saying anything like, YOU LET HIM OUT like he’s your puppy! I let my dog out and he doesn’t come back for hours!
You should let this guy go and get a dog and teach him how to text! if you are going to be so insecure,then you should save yourself the agony of trusting someone.
I never mind it ..(I don’t think of it) !
forget the lecturers’ responses below. bet they would be f**ked off if their partner went out and didnt text. anyway, this isnt about you letting him out, your question is how do you know if your partner is cheating, and a shame on those who ignored your question but attaked you for what you wrote underneath.
so, to answer your question, it may be he’s just having a good time chatting with people – i dont text my partner if im talking with a friend, i consider it rude, and think the same if others do it whilst talking to me, if they do it al the time anyway. just cos he dont text when he’s with people dont mean he’s cheating – that alone is NOT a sign.
some things to look for are patterns – eg does he always drop out, say on wednesday evenings? claims he was ‘asleep’ or some other excuse? look for patterns over time.
also, does he lock his mobile or ‘baby’ it when he’s around you, meaning he wont let it leave his side – thats a sign they are expecting a text from someone they really want to hear from – if it was just a mate, would they be ‘babying’ their phone like that??
does he leave the room when he gets a call and claim ‘reception’ is better outside?
has sex changed? does he either not seem to want it as much, or want to do different things he didnt mention before?
does he have scratch marks on his back that didnt come from you, or a hickey on his neck you know you didnt give him? does he smell of another woman?
finally, do his friends act weird when youre around, or normal.
its really, really hard to tell if your partner is cheating. you have to bide your time, keep your eyes and ears open, and at some point they will get lazy and you will find out, but it may take ages. some are very, very good at it.
good luck
You need to get your own life outside of his and then it wouldn’t worry you as much! If your man is serious about you he will make alot of time for the two of you besides his partying activities! If all he does is party, you might want to rethink his motives!