Question by BEAVER15: Great indication your girlfriend is seeing someone behind your back? What are the signs of cheating to spot?
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Answer by Doug J
She’s no longer interested in getting physical, that’s the biggest sign.
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She seems to always have other plans.
She’s sore and doesn’t want to do it anymore.
You can’t reach her during dating hours, she isn’t as interested in you anymore, but she’s still doo dadding up and looking really fine, and she just doesn’t have time to see you as much as she used to.
she won’t let you touch her cellphone….
If you are suspicious follow up…it’s too easy to talk yourself out of it or explain it away. Even if there’s no cheating (and usually there is) there’s a trust issue. Wish I had believed my gut 10 years ago…
finding some dude in your bed
finding a condom that’s not yours
hangup phone calls
she’s going out more often with people you don’t know
she’s lying
unknown phone numbers on caller id
she treats you badly
Time that is not accounted for, lame excuses, missing condoms,added condoms,grooms more than normal, excercises more than normal,inconsistencies,guys #s on phone,locks phone.
Cannot get ahold of her when you used to be able to. She has less time to spend with you. Maybe she is texting while your guys are together. If you continue to feel like something is up talk to her.
Phone calls on the cell phone that she will not take in your presence.
Accusing you of cheating (this is purely out of guilt).
Late work nights, or late work activities
A new interest in looking especially nice – more so than usual
Spending less time with you
Hope she is not but good luck!
She doesn’t talk with you alot, she’s got other plans that she doesn’t mention to you, she’s changed her hairstyle, color, clothes, she doesn’t want to be intimate with you anymore. She’s starting to be even more quiet, distracted, or is complaining or picking fights about the tiniest things.
cares more about appearance than normal
makes up reasons she can’t see you at a particular time
talks on the phone and doesn’t comment about who she was talking to
not interested in being intimate
starts to treat you bad–more criticism, less praise
If she guards her cellphone or computer. If you ask her what she has been up to and it takes her a while to answer, or you find flaws in her response. If she takes a shower the second she walks in the door. If she does not want to be as intimate with you anymore. If she seems to anger more easily than normal or seems frustrated with you. If you notice scratches, or hickeys on her body. Or if she comes home smelling like cologne
jizz stains on clothes. asshole more bruised than normal. seems to be shaving her muff more regular. out of breath when answering the phone….etc etc
She avoids your eye contact, throws constant mood swings when you talk about sex, and she pulls away from you when you touch her. These are usually some signs of cheaters!
There are a number of tell tale signals each website points out different one but in reality they are just a basis of instances to rely on.
I think
#1. Is change in appearance
#2. Unaccounted for time
#3.Tries to pick a fight (reason for storming off and going out) ALONE
#4. That old gut feeling
1) Refuses a ride back with you because she doesn’t know how late she’d be. Of course, ‘some colleague’ will drop her back.
http://www.love-lectures.com/relationship/her_cheating_signs.htm
2) Discusses her taxation problems with that guy at work/friend’s brother/ someone else instead of you; and you happen to be a chartered accountant.
3) Talk about a man and strangely, he is ALWAYS either gay or has a girlfriend. If he has a fiancee, you have two days to move out.
4) Decks up for this “really boring but imperative” office do. Of course the backless is because she has to be a professional even when she doesn’t like it.
5) Debuts on stage or wins an award and you read about it in the papers. It’s worse if she forgot to invite you or forgot you in her ‘thanks to these people’ list.
6) Tells you to take notes from the Kamasutra For Beginners that she gifts you on your birthday.
7) Refuses to do anything for you because she says she’s developing a Superwoman complex.
8) Prefers men hairless and makes it a point to point it out to you by saying, “So what if you’re very hairy? I have a thing for furry creatures.”
9) Instead of getting turned on while looking at some err, hot stuff with you, starts laughing instead!
10) Looks relieved when you say points 1-9 are reasons the two of you are not working out and says with a smile, “Finally! It took you nine points to realise that?”
Is your Partner cheating in a Relationship? how to tell
http://www.datingspirits.com/dating-basics/cheating.php
Working or traveling too much
Decrease in libido
Increased irritability
Sudden showering of attention
Other warning signs
There are several signs like telephone calls with hang-ups and no messages, emails with password protection and PCs that were not secured earlier, and so on
keeping cell phone ringer on vibrate along with rarely even having it exposed. And if you ask to use it they would wait rite their watching closely so as to get it back in their possession.- Not wanting to fight about things they always got mad at before and wouldn’t drop and now hardly mentioning anything. Spendin time with friends they normally didnt hang with. Of course staying out all nite no matter how good the excuse, is suspicious. Wont look you in the eye to talk bout even everyday things.