Question by Burnsey: What are some signs of a cheating girlfriend?
is a sign that they seem distant randomly and not as touchy or affectionate, but it comes and goes? thanks!
Best answer:
Answer by Superman
you see her getting touchy
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could be. depends on other factors. maybe she’s losing interest in you, somebody is giving her attention elsewhere.. or.. it could mean nothing.
if shes really distant and makes excuses. and texts a bunch of people and goes out at night a lot. i would know if my boyfriend was cheating because of distance or texting.
If she doesn’t make you sandwiches, she probably doesn’t like you, she’s probably making sandwiches for other guys.
First of all, if you suspect someone of cheating, it means there isn’t trust, which means you should break up with them. Or see a shrink cuz you yourself have trust issues, possibly, not necessarily. Or both. What you describe could just be stress, or even them having doubts about the relationship. It’s really not enough to go on. Not only that, if you aren’t happy in the relationship, because you don’t have the closeness we all crave, that also means it’s time to move on. Not trying to be mean, just realistic. Either way, good luck.
Yeah and No. Some people just need space every once in awhile, but on the other hand, yeah she could be talking to other guys, and when some other guy is giving her attention she doesnt really need it from you, but when she isnt getting attention from other guys she expects it from you. Thats just my opinion.
You never really know for sure unless you ask her why she’s acting that way. It might be a family problem, friend, or personal. It might have nothing to do with you but she’s not in the mood to do those things. Ask her and if she lies and acts uncomfortable theirs your answer it might definitely be something about you.
she makes up excuses to not see you,doesn’t want to be affectionate, doesn’t want to have deep conversation or sit and talk anymore, keeps arguing daily about nothing,etc. only you know how the relationship is before and if things have changed sit and talk to her and ask her if she wants to be with you. even if you have all the signs you should still sit and talk to see what’s going on.
distant a lot
not returning calls/text
not as attentive
always out
signs of cheating:
-becoming distant
-flopping on plans
-being grouchy or snappy
-not touching you as much
-not as up for sex (if your having it)
-you find she doesnt seem to miss you as much
A cheating girlfriend is hard to detect because women are very capable of hiding their indiscretions. On the one hand, there are still some tell tale signs that a girlfriend is cheating. If she starts to act distant and seems to want more time apart from you (for whatever bull crap reason) or she acts as if she wants nothing to do with you sometimes, that could be possible. But on another hand if its not consistent, its hard to tell. If you want to know if your girlfriend is cheating on you, confront her. If you don’t trust that she is telling you the truth, ask around to make sure the joke is not on you. Even if you are wrong, its better to be safe than sorry.
To help you analyze your situation here are 7 signs of a cheating girlfriend.
1. She is Spending More Time Away from Home than Usual
One of the most common signs of a cheating girlfriend is that she may start spending more time away from home. It could be that she suddenly keeps getting called into work at odd hours, working late or that she often has to be away on business. Or, she may tell you about some really great new friends that she has made but that you have never met and keep going off to meet up with them without inviting you. Anytime that your girlfriend starts spending significant amounts of time away from home and coming or going at odd hours compared to her usual schedule it can be a sign that she is cheating.
2. She is Spending a lot of Money with Nothing to Show for it.
Most of the time cheating takes money since people who cheat often meet up at places like restaurants or hotels. If you notice that your girlfriend seems to be broke all the time but hasn’t bought anything new and hasn’t had a change in her income level it could be a sign of cheating.
3. She Starts Paying More Attention to Her Appearance
If your girlfriend suddenly starts taking more time with her hair and makeup and dressing up without a special occasion she could be trying to impress whomever she is cheating with. Pay special attention to her underwear selection since most girls like to wear sexy underwear when they are with someone new. If she wears granny panties when she is around you but puts on a lace thong to head to work it could be a sign that she is seeing someone else.
4. She Registers a New Email Address
Because email can be sent discreetly it is one of the most common ways for people who are cheating to stay in touch. Unlike talking on a phone where you could overhear her, she can send an email to another guy from a new email address and you would be none the wiser. Pay attention for her using a new email address, changing her password on her email or suddenly closing the window on her computer when you walk into the room.
5. She Deletes Her Text Messages Right Away
Text messages and cell phones are another common way for people to stay in touch with whomever they are cheating with. A sign that your girlfriend may be cheating is if she suddenly starts deleting her text messages and deleting the call log from her cell phone frequently…usually right after a text message comes in.
6. She Loses Interest in Activities and Interests You Used to Enjoy Together
If your girlfriend is cheating it may start to seem like she has lost all interest in you and in doing activities that you used to enjoy together. She may start canceling your usual movie night or not listening to you when you talk to her. She may not want to hear about your day or pay attention even if you have something important to say to her. It may seem like although she is there with you her brain is somewhere else.
7. Your Mutual Friends Start Acting Weird
You may notice one or two of your mutual friends start acting strangely when they are around you. Sometimes your friends will know that she is cheating and it can make for an uncomfortable situation for them. On one hand they are friends with her and don’t want to betray her secret, but on the other hand they are friends with you and don’t want to see you get hurt. You may even find that someone that used to be a great friend starts avoiding you completely because they don’t want to get involved.
8. Obvious Physical Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend
There are the usual obvious physical signs of a cheating girlfriend that you should watch out for like coming home smelling like cologne, coming home with damp hair or with hair that smells like a different shampoo, or coming home with her blouse buttoned crooked…or even on inside out.
9. She Goes to the Bathroom Right When She Gets Home
If U both giv eachother space to be with family & friends & if there was trust & all of a sudden u keep getting a gut feeling then follow it But the most obvious signs r sudden interest in dressing differently (not 4 u or themselves), time unspoken for, sudden outburst 4 no reason etc BUT u r around the person and hav known them longest U should kno if something is wrong OR there r some trust issues.
Sex comes and goes. Mood swings. Being late
or cancelling plans. Secretive texts. Late
night phone calls.