Question by Mary: I asked this guy if he was a cheater & I haven’t heard back from him–what do you think?
We went out on Thursday & I became highly suspicious that he is a cheater. He only has been available on weekdays & he has left our dates early & abruptly when he doesn’t even have to work early in the morning. We had sex for the first time on the 4th date. He could barely get it up & his air was that of a guilty man. Our four dates spanned a total of six months. He took a shower quickly after sex, in the dark, without a towel & didn’t even ask me if he could use my shower. I wasn’t even asleep when he went into the shower, and he knew it. He left five minutes later saying, “I’ve got to go.” He also set up dates before, but then made excuses why he couldn’t see me. The reason he said he could only see me on the weekdays is because he has his 15 year old daughter then. Then he told me later that she babysits herself, so he got caught in a lie, if you ask me. I emailed him after our 4th date saying, “I have this hunch that you’re seriously involved with someone.” I haven’t heard back from him & he always checks his emails. What do you think? Is he a cheater who realizes he got caught, by me?
Best answer:
Answer by Jodisaurus_Rex
Sounds suspicious. I’d say listen to your intuition.
What do you think? Answer below!.
yeah, I’d have to say he is
Ah, I think I answered this the other night, except I think the part where you asked him if he’s a cheater is new, right?
Anyways, yeah, he’s for SURE a cheater! You just busted him, and he has no response. If he’s going to continue to pursue you, then he’s just taking his time, trying to think of a clever response. Otherwise he may figure that it’s not worth it, and never respond to you.
Either way, you really need to move on from this guy. He is seriously bad news!