Question by Brittany: should i tell the guy i like that the girl he likes is a big cheater?
ok to make this more easy to understand the guys name will be bob, and the girl will be named stacy.
im visiting friends for a bit and i liked Bob for a long time since last april. well im close friends to Bob and Stacy. she found out i liked him and started having a huge fit. well she made sure she was always besided him when we were all hanging out. and crap. well at a party we went too i caught them making out. i figured that he chose and thats that really. but later on i found out after they kissed he told her he couldn’tdo that to me. because he doesn’t wnat me to get hurt.
well we talked and i said basically if you love her. go for it. because im not standing in the way. i like him sure but im not his princess. he said i was a good friend and shit. and went off to fairy tale land. haha the problem is those rght after i said that. i was at her house and i saw her IM some guy who lived close to her. and he asked if she was single (which she isn’t. she has a 3 year long relenship with this guy named Tony) ( bob is going to wait till she breaks up with Tony to ask her out) well she said yes and they went to go hang out. im so shocked. i figured that she was just going pretended she wasn’t with Bob until he asked her or something. so i kept quite and i went to another friend house. i told her what i saw and she told me that Stacy has another guy (Robin) who lives a few towns over. i asked if Bob knew about this and she said no.
Stacy is a great friend. but i care more for Bob. i know this is long but Bob has been there for me this past year and Stacy not so much.. if i tell him he will other think im trying to get back at him or something b.c he knows i like him. but if i dont tell him he will get his heart broken and that would just kill me to see him go though all this pain. or even wrost. having Stacy have all 4 guys and get away with this. (Bob told me that he liked me too but he liked Stacy better.) wtf should i do ? if i tell him he’ll tell Stacy i told her and she will be pissed….. should i tell him or keep my mouth shut?
Best answer:
Answer by Vlad
Yes you should, although I doubt he will listen to you
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Let’s get one thing clear. Bob does not like you. Not one bit. He might enjoy the attention he gets from you, or the flattery that you have a crush on him, but if he liked you, he would be pursuing you, not Stacy. I think that you should spend time on people that care about you and are positive for you to be around instead of worrying about who Stacy is dating. If I were you, I wouldn’t tell Bob a thing. I would go hang out with other friends and let them worry about each other.
Not necessary and let him know himself.