Question by BabyBlue: What are some signs of a cheating husband?
What are some of the signs of a husband who is cheating? One who isnt late from work or anything like that, but is very sneaky.
Omg lexi I’m so sorry if thats your case..
& ICE SLICE, thats right, guys have no flaws to make women bitchy, eh?
Best answer:
Answer by Momma S. LEXI Kardashian
Look in the gun cabnit for a video tape of him sexing YOUR SISTER..I bet you’ll find one!
EDIT** yeah..Thank you for your condolences–it’s been a long hard road but me and Tom-Tom are trying to work through it..I felt much better when I had TT Pablo and saw how sweet revenge could feel…Anyway, thank you…You are a sweetie…:)
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me if he starts goin to the bathroom with hes cell phone or go take a shower right when he comes home and dont want to have sex with you
A Bitchy wife.
Maintaining Privacy on his cell phone, being on the guard always, unexplained absence from the house, distant sex life, showering you with unnecessary gifts, wayward credit card bills,
a Christmas Elf hiding in your gun cabinet..
*the first sign i always look for..
Most men aren’t smart enough to realize that even if he cleans up at the strumpet’s abode, she will not have the same toiletries he uses at home. He will smell different from using different soap, hair product etc, even a different detergent on a towel or wash cloth can be telling. Get your nose in good working order, dahling.
check out craigslist casual encounters to see if he has an ad up
my ex wife had her cell phone glued to her 24 / 7. If he never leaves his phone lying around that is a very good sign. Especially when he goes to bed, if he hides it or lays with it right beside him.
Change in voice right after incident.
Woman’s intuition is your best sign. If his time is accounted for i dont understand how he could be cheating. If you believe he is doing it on his job take a few unexpected trips to see whats going on. Sounds to me like you are paranoid & fearful that something is going on when its not. If it is it will eventually come to the surface. The best way to know if his sexual habits with you has changed in any way? Does he ever act nervous around you when he comes home? Does he act like hes hiding something & if you ask questions he gets a little defensive about it or avoid answering? Those are the things my ex did….my intuition had already told me before the signs showed it.
Hides or turns off cell phone
Calls a certain number a lot (or text)
Different behavior towards you
Less sex
All of sudden wants to look nice or wears a different cologne or more cologne
Unexplained spending
Goes out and does not say where
Spends more time away from home
Talks less w/you and does not seem interested in you
And most importantly your gut feeling…
when he’s happy.
you may see changes in him, he may not be interested in things he previously was, that have to do with you. he may fault find, name call, complain he doesn’t like his life, say he is bored. he may display different sex moves he never did before. he may go in a different room when his cell rings, he may suddenly begin to bathe more than usual, or become more selfish than he ever was. he may suggest that there is something wring with you, that you should seek counseling. he sleeps more than usual or stays up later than usual. he may begin to do things to you deliberately, things he never did before, just to set you off. he may begin to hide money and say he hasn’t got any or he didn’t make much. he also may say he has to work out of town but you never see any of the money. if he feels guilty he may gift you something you wanted when its not christmas or a birthday. the best indication is your own intuition, you can actually feel something is off.
Sudden change no sex. On the phone more often makes excuse to fight just out of the ordinary.
Go to his car when you can and look in the glove box, the front seat moved up or back from how you last had it, look for different color hair on the seat or different brand of cigarettes in the ashtray. Look in the truck that’s where my husband hid thinks from me he knew I never looked in there it wasn’t until after he got caught I looked. When he comes home smell his skin for that fresh soap smell the best way to tell is to go down on him. You will definitely smell and taste soap if he tells you he doesn’t want you to go down on him then he has been with another woman. Men never turn down a BJ, sex yes but never a BJ don’t forget his clothes especially his shirt and his underwear as gross as that sounds. I told my husband that I smelled perfume on his shirt (I really didn’t) he denied it,it wasn’t until he got caught that I found out he told the other woman to stop wearing perfume because I could smell it on him. Does he leave for work earlier in the morning or does he ever tell you he is driving a co-worker to work because their car is being worked on or broke down and he will be driving him or her to work until the car is fixed. How about happy hour does he ever call and ask if it will be OK if he has a few drinks with his friends from work? Is he more aware of his appearance has he lost any weight does he talk about a certain person and how good she is doing at work. Is he taking more money out of the bank or ATM for the week. Check all his bank and credit card statements look for anything out of the ordinary like unexplained dinners or gifts. I got bad news for you if you think he is cheating then he is cheating we know before we actually find out for sure it’s called women’s intuition and it’s never wrong. We know when something isn’t right it could be just a few small things that make us aware that he is up to something. My husband would always leave his cell phone out in his car he said he gets tried of all the phone calls from work and stupid me believed him. I had to learn the hard way I had clue after clue after clue that he was seeing someone but he was very clever and talked his way out of it or I was just in denial like most women are. Don’t be like me go with your gut feeling remember most husbands cheat even though most husbands on here say they don’t cheat I don’t know of any husbands that would admit to cheating do you? Does your husband keep passwords on his cell or computer or are suites you can’t get into without a password if so then there is something he doesn’t want you to see. Make sure you check all his pockets in his pants when he comes home go check his coat pockets look in his dresser under all his clothes and in between and behind. I never looked in his dresser sure I would put away his clothes but I would put his clean clothes on top. Come to find out he kept receipts in the back of his underwear. We trust our husbands and that’s how they get away with cheating no one wants to believe that the one they love would stab them in the heart. I still wouldn’t have none about my husbands cheating if not for the other woman. He stopped seeing her and she wasn’t going to let him get away with breaking her heart so she made sure I got my heart broken as well she made sure I found out about the two of them.
You don’t have sex with him
You don’t do oral
You’re over-weight
You’re not on birth-control
You blame him for your bitchiness
… but he’s happy anyway then he’s cheating or planning to kill you.
Might want to accept the lesser of two…
“… guys have no flaws to make women bitchy …”
You are responsible for you.
No one; no one makes you a bitch but you.
Here is the truth ladies – All men cheat. We ALL do it in one way or another. Before you flame me, let me ask you this – what is your definition of cheating? Is it sex? Then I will ask if BJ’s considered cheating? If you say those are also cheating then how about going to a strip club? How about if he touches the dancer? How about if she touches him? Is that cheating? If he kisses someone? Petting over the clothes? Has phone sex with an old flame? Is that cheating? It is this sliding scale that lets me make the generalization that all men have cheated. We dont do it often but we all stray ladies. Its how we are wired. Sometimes we do it just a little and sometimes a lot. You cannot want to have strong masculine man and not expect him to have some of these traits to go along with it.
Its a physical craving similar to craving chocolate or drugs. Compare it to your need to talk and share emotionally with your girlfriends. Imagine if you were only allowed to talk about personal things with your husband. All conversation with your mom or girlfriends would need to be about non personal topics ONLY. Anything that you feel emotional about you need to save and discuss only with your husband. You would feel cut off and begin to experience this slow build up of emotions inside you. You would crave the opportunity to open up and share with your girlfriends. You might be able to resist the urge for awhile but you will begin to experience this craving to “cheat” and sometimes if circumstances are right you would cheat.
I realize this is a silly type comparison but I use it to help you understand what it feels like to be a guy. Guys are guys and I’m not saying it is a good thing we cheat I’m just making an honest observation. If you dont care about any of this and are just hell bent on keeping him from even looking at another woman then you need to drain him almost daily. Just like you would a cow. That will also work.
There is only one way to catch a husband like that it is with a software that you can load on his cellphone. Once you do it is completely invisible and he will never know that it’s been loaded on unless he catches you in the act, which only takes a minute. After the software is installed on the phone you will have access by computer and internet to his phonebook, every phone call he makes, he gets, how long the calls lasted and how many times each one calls. A great feature is that you have all his text messaging logs, you will know exactly what they are texting each other word for word. Check out the link below.
Get online and look at his cell phone usage. The bill will lay out every call, when, and for how long. If you think he’s worth keeping show it to him. If you don’t, take it directly to a lawyer, you’ll do better with infidelity as your grounds for divorce. Weak man.