Question by Andrea: What are some signs of cheating?
I’m really suspicious that my boyfriend is cheating on me. We have been together since 2007 and he just moved to another city to go to school. He is always saying that he does not do anything wrong but I just don’t trust the people he is hanging out with. He has his own apartment and I only get to see him every other weekend when I go to see him. What should I look for or watch for???
Thank you very much!!!
Andrea
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Answer by Jonathan
32 signs
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He might seem a bit more nervous when you bring it up…
Maybe if you look closely, you’ll find some discards of make up or something in his appt.
He might have certain messages on his machine or cell phone…
Idk don’t push it b/c then he’ll break up with you, especially if he’s cheating already…
But don’t let him use you…
Just be kinda “quiet” about the situation, maybe…
Oh, you could discretely ask some of his friends, too, if they’re trustworthy…
Wrong question for your situation. You don’t trust him or his friends. Trust is the main foundation for love, without trust you don’t have a relationship. Without trust, why are you wasting your time calling him your boyfriend? Either trust him or end it and move on.
If you need proof, you only need to look inside yourself to see what this situation has already done to you. It is already hurting you inside, so either trust what he “always says” or move on to a relationship that actually builds trust.
Spying on him and checking for evidence is ridiculous; that is what police investigators do, that is not what people do who are in love. People in love trust each other.
You obviously do not trust this person, therefore, you do not love this person. So the real question is why do you call him your boyfriend? The next question is why do you think you have a relationship? Third question is what do you want from a relationship? Do you want to spend your time spying on him? Take a good hard look at yourself and what you really want.