Question by Baby’s Mama! 😛: Cheating is horrible and traumatizing. Is it even more damaging when it’s the same gender as the cheater?
I would think that if I caught my boyfriend or husband in a sexual tryst with a man, it would be a lot more mentally devastating, than if I’d caught him with a woman. With him being with another guy, that’s a whole new level of lying… because not only was his lying about not having sex with someone else, he is possibly lying about his orientation, which could make me feel like he wasn’t even attracted to me to being with!
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Answer by Vegas girl
hmmmm
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it would be less devastating to me. At least you know it wasn’t you personally, it was beyond your control. Of course he wasn’t attracted to you to begin with — he’s gay, woman! What do you expect?!?!?
I would rather it be with a guy….at least then I would know some woman wasnt “better’ than me. I would then know it was something I couldnt ever offer!
people hide things even from them selves.Some one could get married too young and end up finding out that they are gay. You are not full grown till you are around 24. Get married before that you are taking a chance on your marriage not working.We all make mistakes,at least some people can say it out loud!
Having an affair is awful no matter what. Yes, for me it would probably be worse if a man cheated on me with another man.
That’s what happens when You put to much faith in any One Person….!!
I had married friends years ago the husband could see his second marriage going, so he decided to take her for short holidays,out for tea, counselling. bought her gifts, the whole 9 yard and in a middle of the argument she said Jane (name change) is better then you anytime. He was gutted he said to me he could of taken her cheating with a man not a woman this was the 80”s. This going sound terrible my partner wished i would bring a woman home me no way, I like guys.(I think it is his fantasy that is where it is staying)