Question by Blue: Q for guy cheaters……I really need to know why??? Plz?
I have known my BF 3 yrs,been together 10 months.We are in a long distant relationship right now.He’s 23, I’m 34(keep in mind that I look much younger).I am pregnant.When we are together every 2 wks,he treats me wonderful.He’s really loving towards me and buys me whatever I want constantly just trying to keep me happy.He calls me every single day as soon as he wakes up,on his way to work,during all his breaks and lunch hour and on his way home.The rest of the time he’s asleep bc he has a 3rd shift job.The thing is that I know he’s cheating.He’s not a good liar and I catch him lying alot.I’m not sure if it’s physical or online tho.He is constantly signing on thru his fone.We share the same plan so I can see everything.He will make excuses to hang up for a little bit when we are on the phone just to find out he signs on as soon as we hang up.I know he loves me,it’s obvious.What confuses me is why the need for someone else? When i try to leave him,he goes hysterical and begins to cry and beg.Why?? I just don’t get it! It’s not the sex bc we still have great sex, I’m not showing yet. I’m so confused! =
Best answer:
Answer by BrokenHeartedGirl
Girl, I don’t know but you should read the book called Act like a lady, think like a man, by steve harvey, they break it DOWN in that book as to why guys cheat, and everything.. it’s so good, I haven’t finished it though, but it’s good..
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“We are in a long distant relationship right now.”
That’s why.
I’m free …. and I promise I won’t text out on ya !
it just a guy thing for as long as i can remember men has always cheated, try talking to him and let him know how this is making you feel. And maybe he will stop if he know that this is causing you so much pain.
From previous experience with an ex boyfriend cheating, once they cheat they will do it again AND AGAIN!!You wont be the one to change him a man like that will always do it weather it be because they are insecure or just wanting to prove to themselves they can still get other women i dont know but that type of man isnt worth 1 minute of your worrying leave the sorry thing go out with your friends make yourself look fabulous and you will be feeling great soon 🙂