Question by cyndee s: I asked a question earlier about how to catch cheaters.?
I love my husband so much, but everthing in my body is telling me hes unfaithful! The guys at his work say he texts more than a girl!
But when I ask him who he texs he says nobody. The guys are just busting his balls “he says”! We live in las vegas to boot (sin city!) and he works lots of late nights.( hes a fireman.) Plus he always doing events that he doesn’t get paid for, but I cant go becuz our baby is to litle. When I bug him, he say he has a obligation to the community, and I say he has a obligation to his family. We are from Utah and have only been here 18 months, and hes not even close to being the same person he was. Im always wondering where he is and what hes doing? and its taking its tool on my life! Is there any way to track his texts or his where abouts.
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Answer by leyte6519
You can hire a private detective. Just make sure you are ready to hear the worst. Goodluck
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A private investigator is the answer here. You can’t follow him and even if you did you might rationalize it away. You need an objective third party to watch him and monitor his cell phone usage. Believe me, I know from being the ‘other woman’, this is the sure-fire way to catch him. Good luck, don’t worry, the truth will come out, it always does.
It’s not. Just pray. I know you ain’t trying to hear this, but get in your Bible. Men are just……..I don’t know. I’ve been married for 3 years and my husband has put me threw h*ll and back….LITTERALLY!! It’s hard because you love him so much. What you need to ask is, if he is cheating, what are you going to do next? NEVER inconvience yourself or babies on account of his actions. Sit down, talk to him. When that don’t work, TRUST me, God will give you everything you need to know. Hang in there.
If you think he’s cheating, then he is. Us women always know when something is going on, we can sense it everytime, so trust your instincts. As for tracking his calls, if the cell phone is in your name, most companies will be able to give you the information. Just give the company a call and ask what you need to do to get ahold of it. If nothing else, you can confront your husband about this, or even try the TV show cheaters. They hire a private investigator who will follow him and then they give you the evidence. Just trust your gut, you know what’s going on, and if you don’t stop it now, it will never stop.
GIRLFRIEND LOOK YOU HAVE BIGGER FISH TO DEAL WITH YOUR BABY THAT MAN IS GOING TO DO WHATEVER HE WANTS WHETHER YOU KNOW ABOUT IT OR NOT TRYING TO CATCH HIM IS ONLY GOING TO BREAK YOUR HEART NOT HIS HIS BUDDIES CAN BE TELLING YOU SH** BECAUSE THEY ARE JEALOUS OF THE CLOSE BOND THAT THE 2 OF YOU HAVE WHY WOULD YOU BELIEVE HIS FRIENDS OVER HIM ANYWAY IF HE IS DOING SOMETHING EVERYTHING THAT IS IN THE DARK COMES TO LIGHT AT SOME POINT IF YOU THINK HE IS DOING DIRT USE CONDOMS AND DON’T HAVE ORAL SEX WITH HIM PROTECT YOURSELF YOU HAVE A BABY TO THINK ABOUT
Sorry to say, I agree with you. There are way too many holes in his stories.
He is probably texting to the extent his co-workers say he is. Check the phone bill, it should state how many text messages are being sent and received. Or you can call the phone company and ask about the useage.
Or, some evening, when he is busy or in the shower, check his phone for the text messages. Check the inbox, sent, saved, and trash… However, he might be covering his trail and deleting everything before he gets home.
If you have 2 cars, follow him, and see where he’s going… or have a friend follow him for you. Or you can hire “CHEATERS”! He has given you many reasons to question his honesty. Don’t be fooled.
However, after a good investigation, and you find nothing… Love him and stop accusing him of cheating.
I’ve seen Cheaters on TV from Dallas, TX their free , always get you what you want. But there will a lot of embarrassment to both sides
If your gut is telling you something is not right..Then it probably isn’t listen to it! Minse was yelling at me last week and I listened to it and yes my BF was talking to another girl..My babies are 1 and 2 years old and he left them just the same…It hurts like he!! but you must go on and pick up the pieces and move on..But for your own peace of mind find out one way or the other or you will go insane!! Good luck to you and your baby///
Why are you talking to the guys at his work? Why do you think they would tell this to you? Maybe you could get a tracking device put on his car that only you know about and that reports its location only to you?
I feel your pain girl! I don’t live in Vegas , but my x went there all the time!!!!!!!!! I lost a lot of zzzzzzz! Plus I had 2 little boys.
Trying to be strong for me and them was a B@!#H. My girl turned me on to these dudes in Vegas ,www.eyesforhire.com. They hooked me uuuuuuup! Plus they are hella cheap! Now I have a good man who loves me and my boys. F all u heartless players! GOOD LUCK GIRL!
if you feel he is (he is)we woman know we can feel it.and .men will lie.? so ask him are you f—- someone. tell me now cause ? someone call today ////and see what he says. give him that sad look and don’t say nothing leave the room. .and wait ////////// wait .let him talk .and then say .i know everything she told me so don’t lie/////////////please hang- in there
I believe there are phones out there with a gps (or whatever its called) tracking device.. i know ive seen them cause they advertise them for being able to track ur kids..maybe u can buy him that phone and not tell him it has a gps tracking device in it..
I dated a firefighter for 5 years.. and girl i know how hard it is to be with a firefighter.. most are womanizing pigs.. (doesnt mean ur man is) but the guys he is working with probably are.. (I lived in Wyoming at the time) Girl i hated the department i really did, it was hard sharing with a mistress and his mistress was the department and my man hung out at the station even when he was off, and they guys willllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllll say crazy stuff like that to bust their ballz its true.. so they could be just saying it to harrass him and get under ur skin, cause they dont think of what its doing to u, all those guys care about is what its doing to him getting him in trouble.. so its very possible they are just joking around about the text.. on ur cell bill it should show how many text msg’s are done, i dont think it shows what was said in the texts but it shows how many are going out.. so keep track of how many u recieve from him and check the bill..
And communication, tell him how ur feeling tell him how its playing on ur emotions and ask him if theirs something u both can do to make this situation better, maybe he could go out of his way to call u a bit more often even if its just to say he loves u.. but see if u cant work something out..
If you don’t trust him, then you don’t love him. Love and trust go hand in hand.