Question by Caleigh: Have you ever been humiliated by your partner cheating?
I worked with my husband at the same company, then I found out he was cheating with one of the women there, I felt so betrayed and humiliated. I filed for divorce and left that job. Luckily we decided to not have kids. All those people in our office knew and I just felt so embarrassed.
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Answer by The Fat Man
No.
I have a strict rule.
No fishing from the company pier.
What do you think? Answer below!.
Yes and I will never put up with that again!
Yes… unfortunately at a party with all of our friends. He was doing her on the front porch and I walked out and found them. Dreadful situation. I left him too.
Here’s hoping you find peace after your experience!
Yeah, I was humiliated my (ex)husband cheated…with TWO of… his father’s girlfriend’s daughters. The same night. In a 3some. EVERYBODY in his family knew, so..yeah… was humiliated when I finally learned the truth…
Edit: Oh yeah, forgot to mention.. I was 6 months pregnant.
So sorry… Mine wasnt this bad but my husbands first love came back into the picture in 1998 and he was seeing her until 2001 . We have no kids. He finally realized no love was better than our love and was looking for closer that he never had.
I felt very hurt …
You did the right thing.
I feel ya on this one. I’m sorry that happened to you. That was dirty. My 1st husband waited until I was deployed and then sent me a picture of him, my best friend and THEIR baby! I thought she was pregnant by her boyfriend and never thought she had an interest in my husband! We were best friends for 7 years!
you did the right thing.
once a cheat alwayz a cheat.
thats what ive been told x
Fortunately, no. In our situation no one knows, so it’s just between the parties directly involved. That would add a layer that I can’t relate to at all. Sorry for all your pain and suffering.
Yes, and then I held my head high because I had nothing to be humiliated about. I hadn’t done anything. I felt proud of the way I handled it, just as you did. I did feel betrayed for a long time after and it made trusting hard for future relationships. But he is the one who should and does feel humiliated, embarrassed and like a FOOL he is!!!
sorry to hear this. but it should be him and her who feel embarrassed. They are in the wrong and you have done nothing wrong. You played your faithful part and they crossed the line. they should be the one who felt humiliated.
You well done. Move on and find somebody who shares your value. Don’t be dragged on by that, it;s not worth it.
Good luck.
Sorry sweetheart that must have been awful for you. No in 40+ years of marriage I have never experienced anything like that. I hope you are getting over it and are feeling better about yourself now.xx
yes i felt humiliated,because his entire family knew about her but me.but now i realize that what he did was about him and not about me.we do feel humiliated, but usually people see right through it, and he is the one to be humiliated, and not u.i also left and moved out of state, due to my own ego being hurt, but in reality i wasn’t the one who should have been humiliated. but u did a wise thing when u left, the people in the office most likely felt sorry for u.
My husband cheated on me. Everyone where he worked knew because most of them were cheating on their wives.
I didn’t feel embarrassed when everyone found out. I didn’t do anything wrong and I knew it wasn’t my fault.
I divorced him, met a really great guy a year later and married him 6 years later. I never looked back.
If it were me I would have gone to his boss and had him and her fired. I wouldn’t have left the job. They are the ones that should be embarrassed and ashamed. Hold your head up !
Yes, I found out about his from just about my whole work crew. He was at drill and I had to walk home, becuase of some mechanical probs with my car. I waited for a couple of the guys and their girlfriends who lived near me, so that I could walk with them, because it was already dark out. One of their girlfriends told me that night that not only was he cheating, but he had been telling everybody at his job, where she worked, right next door to my job, that he was planning on leaving me for the 19 year old girl. I went home that night and threw his clothes and his favorite recliner out in the yard. (It’s amazing the strength you get when you’re pissed.)
My 1st husband cheated on me from the first day we got married. He had no morals whatsoever.
My 2nd husband cheats but doesn’t think it’s cheating. He’s picked up hookers, picked up restaurant workers, convenience store employees, and co-workers. . . he’s not very selective. But he wants his family to think he’s the golden child. What a crock!!
The people at the office probably looked at her like a home wrecker and him as a low life cheating scum bag, That sort of thing happened at a place I worked at once. This girl worked at the ame place as all of us and so did her husband. Well to make a long story short a girl that used to work there but left to finish school started baby sitting for her “they were friends”. Well the baby sitter got mad at the guy and called her friend she was baby sitting for us and told her she has been sleeping with her husband for about 8 months.
It was all over work in a matter of minutes and the girl was so upset we were trying are best to calm her down her dad was a boss there him and his son in law had a talk and he left. We all took of work and she came back to my aunts house with all of us. He wanted her back but how could she go back with him when they all worked together once she trusted her and that was her friend and her own husband.
She left him filed for divorce and moved in with her dad and step mom.
She came back to work but it was hard for her and she was so embarrassed. She didn’t have a reason to be he was the idiot and you shouldn’t have either. But you did the right thing.
Everyone that has been cheated on has felt some level of embarrassment and humiliation. You are lucky to be able to leave the work place and I’m sure they understand why. Some of us aren’t so lucky to have the privilege to escape the stares and opinions. Unfortunately, there’s no where to go especially when your entire family and friends know your husband is cheating on you.
No I haven”t but my friends husband was arrested for prositution with a hooker and taken to jail and She went to jail to bail him out
I was in the exact same situation, although we were engaged. I met my partner at work, we started dating a few weeks after I joined the company. I noticed he was close to his new secretary, but I just thought nothing of it, thought they’re just becoming friends. One day, one of my colleagues walked in on them kissing. It spread round the whole company (it covered three floors of the building), and I found out three months later because my boss told me, thought I deserve to know.
For three months I was the laughing stock of the office and had no idea. Everyone talked and laughed and gossiped and no one had the decency to tell me the man I planned to spend my life with was doing it with his secretary (so cliche).
Needless to say, I dumped him. And quit my job. A year later, still trying to find a decent job (damn credit crunch!), and he is still pleading we get back together!
Man that sucks. Sorry you had to go through that.
I suspect my wife of cheating on me with someone we work with. She won’t admit it, but I know it’s true. I’ve told everyone we work with and I’m hoping to humiliate HER. I’m not leaving this job. If she feels bad, she can go.